A person with a charismatic personality often has the following traits; they’re likeable, interesting, energetic and pleasant to be with.
Developing these traits can be very helpful in your career, business or relationships. It makes you stand out from the rest.
But, developing a charismatic personality takes time and practice. There’s no quick fix or shortcut. But, the results are worth the effort.
So, here are 8 ways magical ways on how you can develop a more charismatic and essentially a more likable personality.
Being a good listener doesn’t just mean sitting down and using your ears to listen to somebody’s words. It means we have to actively do the following things:
Be sure to nod or say “hmm…”. The person will feel understood and listened to. It is important to make them feel like they are the only person in the room.
We all love someone who is supportive, lifts us up when we feel down and just gets the best out of us Did you know that you can actually do little things in your daily life that make you more encouraging and supportive.
Here are some things you can do:
If you want to develop a more charismatic personality then it is vital that you are an honest and reliable person. A reliable person never lets anyone down. They never under deliver when they commit to something. You have to be real about what you can offer. This way you people will trust you. Once you’re known as someone who can’t be trusted, it’s very hard to overcome this.
Another very important thing is to not make fun of other people and gossip.
Good conversation skills are an important key to success.
When you master this art, you can meet anybody and talk about anything with ease. The good news is that there are ways to develop your conversational skills. When implemented well, you can develop a charismatic personality.
Be interesting and have something to say. But how do you get interesting stories?
By getting yourself out there, talking to people and getting out of your comfort zone.
Share your views to keep the conversation flowing. But always reminder to ask the other person questions. Don’t just talk about yourself. Encourage the other person to elaborate on their views and really take the time to listen and show your interest. You can meet more people, attend more gatherings and visit public places to get better at it.
You might feel like you’re getting out of your comfort zone, but the more you do it, the better you’ll get at it.
If you want to be a charismatic person then it’s important to have an energetic and enthusiastic vibe. Most people love being around others who are positive, energetic and enthusiastic, because they appear to be so self-confident however not in an egotistical way. If you are positive you will glow, smile and radiate your inner beauty.
Be someone who lights up the room. Look for the positive things in life and spread cheerfulness with your presence.
Be energetic and enthusiastic
We all enjoy the company of someone who makes us laugh. Humor is a much needed stress reliever at times. Having a sense of humor can make you more engaging and pleasant to be with. When you can add fun and humor to a dull atmosphere, people will love you for it.
One very important thing you can do to be more charismatic is to change your body language.
Research has shown that the body language is responsible for communicating 55% of our message. The way we use our voice is responsible for 38% of the message. The actual words we say are only responsible for 7% of conveying a message. This really shows how important our body language is. Your posture should be relaxed, but your back should be straight. This shows people you are comfortable and confident
“Be yourself” – is the most counter-productive tip you will ever get.
Why?Being yourself makes you complacent. It makes you feel that there is no need to make any further improvements in your life. The truth is that if we want to grow in life we have to get out of our comfort zone. Instead of just waiting for a magical sprinkle in your life, we need to go out there, take charge and be pro-active. Create the life you want. Learn from your mistakes and use them to grow yourself.
Stop procrastinating and put in the required effort to get the life you want.
In simple words, constantly aim for becoming a better version of yourself.
So, there you go, after following these tips you can develop a more charismatic personality.
But, only those who study, practice and dedicate themselves to learning and improving will reap the rewards.