All through Miriam’s teenage, she dreams of getting married as a virgin. Never has she been in a position to choose whether or not to have sex.
On her twentieth birthday, life just started for her unknown to her. Miriam was in the hostel where things are different form home. here in the University where nobody watches your actions and decisions are made without interference of anyone but yourself.
This is where it all begins. The urge to have sex comes strongly, she just wants to fit in . Miriam met Alfred in school and they started dating, Alfred has been very nice and patient on her part. Sometimes Miriam feels as though she is not treating him fairly . with this thought on her mind, she discussed with her roommates . They just advised her to do whatever her body wants to do, and not let her boyfriend suffer. Her roommates took time to explain the pleasure of sex to her and how she will not regret having sex.
It was just too much for her, as she listens, her body responds immediately to the thought. Pills were made available for her once she’s done having sex, to prevent any casualties.
Its a Friday night, Miriam usually spends the night at her boyfriends house . She surprises him by coming all sexy on him, they started by having a romantic kissing session and Miriam’s thought was to take off his pants.
Surprisingly, he stopped her. In between a kiss he told her “I LOVE YOU” she smiled, he explained ” I love you so much that I am ready to wait till after our marriage”.
This brought tears to her eyes because she thought that the only way to keep a relationship was to have sex with her man.
She was just so happy and hugged him tightly.
She left that day with a new mentality, that a relationship is not centered around sex.