LOVE IS THE GREATEST FORCE THAT HOLDS RELATIONSHIP AND MARRIAGES TENACIOUSLY BY UCHE HENRY
Among all the lubricants of relationship and marriage, I found; (Permit me to use ‘Sincere LOVE’) to be the most multipotent force that (Virtue) that binds/holds Relationship/Marriage perpetually.
Before man was made, love has been existing, and that ‘LOVE’ is GOD. The foundation of the earth and its fullness were made out of GOD’s LOVE.
GOD made man in His image (not like animals), man fell from Glory but JESUS CHRIST came restored and reconciled man to GOD; all these are acts of GOD’S LOVE for mankind.
In every relationship and marriage, the man and woman unarguably has different backgrounds, idealogies, philosophies, orientation, culture, religion, perceptions etc. which makes it naturally Incompatible for both to live together without rancor. Due to these diversities, there is every possibility that misunderstanding, disagreement and other offences of high magnitude will occur; because man is imperfect beings. But be that as it may, SINCERE LOVE has the efficacy to hold Relationships and Marriages together till GOD knows when.
Studies have shown that, there is no wounds that LOVE cannot heal, even situations that would lead the spouses to ‘World Apart’ was still held firmly by LOVE.
LOVE has everything it takes to hold Relationship and Marriages efficaciously. The GOD’S WORDS says; ‘LOVE is patient, love is kind, love is enduring, love thinketh no evil, love is not boastful, love is not envy, love is not selfish, love revenge not. So if either or both of the spouses in Relationships and Marriages has this unequivocal and quintessential LOVE founded by GOD, I strongly believe, such Relationships and Marriages unarguably becomes the cynosure of other unions.
Other factors like Sex and Trust can also keep Relationship and Marriages but to an extent. Sex is a bond but it looses it taste when there is no LOVE. contrary to some women’s believe, ‘You cannot keep your Relationship and Marriages soaring with sex’. Research has shown that it’s CHARACTER; NOT SEX that attracts ‘Responsible Men’ to a woman?
Trust on the other hand can be betrayed, and ones betrayed, its’ restoration is very difficult to come by.
Money as well is a determining factor in most Relationships and marriages but it lacks the force to keep it going. Research has shown that most Relationships and Marriages broke up not because of money. Besides, your spouse may give you enough money without loving you.
In précis, you will believe me that when offenses arise, it is only LOVE that can make the other person to forgive and reunite with the other, even in despair, it is LOVE that resuscitate and brings succor and solace to the union. Every other thing is limited except LOVE.
Therefore, LOVE is the greatest, whoever has it, have it all, for GOD is LOVE.