Hurray! It’s a new year again. Thankfully, you’ve survived the Holiday season and all the extras that came with it. The Holiday period can be a bit challenging for singles, but trust me, it’s far better to be single than to settle for the wrong partner. If your New Year’s resolution is to find love this year, you must begin with you. Be happy with yourself. Although it sounds very cliché, It just happens to be the truth. When you’re truly happy with your life, you will attract the highest quality mate.

To be happier, refocus your life by considering the following tips.

Develop an attitude of gratitude.


Take a moment to focus on appreciating what you have, not what you don’t have. Never compare yourself with others.  Comparison is a happiness killer. Keep a gratitude journal and take a few minutes before bed to write down the parts of your day that you’re celebrating.

Develop an attitude of gratitude, not comparisons, and you’ll be so much happier. Don’t be upset that you don’t have what others have. Develop an attitude of gratitude instead of regrets, and you will live a healthy and happy life in 2017.


Be positive.

Happy people focus on the positives more than the negatives. So, stop comparing your life to others and focus on what’s working in your life. Every time you find yourself focusing on judgment, negativity, or feeling less than someone else, STOP. Take a breath. Ask yourself, “What am I feeling right now?” Then bring your attention to what you’d like to be feeling.

Put your focus there, and you’ll make a choice to live a more empowered life, knowing you can change your focus to the positive at any time. Live in the now. The best way to begin to find true happiness is to stop looking for it. Happiness is already in you, waiting to be uncovered. To be truly happy is to unblock the shields to your happiness, uncover the joy within, and share that joy with others.


Simplify your life.

Get rid of negative energy. Drop resentments and assumptions.  If you want a happy life and a joyous relationship in the long run, share the happiness that is within yourself, and do it right now. Do it with clarity and focus.


Get rid of all black holes of energy and anyone who drains you. Improve your level of happiness and you’ll soon reap the benefits of the joy you attract into your life.

Wishing you a joyous, peaceful and  love-filled 2017 – no matter what you might be going through.

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