Finding real love on television is basically like finding a needle in a haystack, but one that’s currently on fire. Most couples from these shows fizzle out before the reunion special even airs. Yet, somehow, Mitchell and Sydney from Farmer Wants a Wife have managed to defy the odds, the distance, and the high-pressure environment of reality TV.
If you followed their journey on Season 2, you know it wasn't just about the cameras. It was about the dirt, the Nashville outskirts, and a girl from Jersey who wasn't afraid to get her hands messy.
The Spark That Actually Lasted
Honestly, looking back at that first meeting, Mitchell Kolinsky was pretty much a goner the second he saw Sydney Errera. He’s admitted in interviews that he knew she was "the one" before they even spoke, just from seeing her photo on a casting sheet. But the real clincher? When she showed up for filming in a stunning white dress but had camo Crocs on her feet because she hadn't put her heels on yet.
That was it. Game over for the Tennessee farmer.
They bonded instantly over hunting, fishing, and just being outdoorsy people. It wasn't forced. While other farmers were struggling with the "city girl" transition, Sydney fit into the Mount Juliet farm life like she’d been there for years. Even during the show, they were sneaking off-camera to steal kisses in a little nook in Mitchell’s house, trying to have a relationship that felt real rather than performative.
Moving In and Making It Official
For a long time, the biggest hurdle for Mitchell and Sydney was the distance. New Jersey to Tennessee isn't exactly a quick afternoon drive. They spent over a year doing the long-distance thing, racking up frequent flyer miles and spending thousands on flights just to see each other for a few days at a time.
By early 2025, they decided enough was enough.
In May 2025, Sydney officially packed up her life in Mullica Township and made the permanent move to Tennessee. It was a massive deal. She’s famously close with her family—especially her dad—and there were plenty of tears when she finally left the nest. But she didn't come alone. She brought her "baggage," which in her case meant her two sheep she's had since middle school.
Mitchell had been busy preparing the farm for her arrival, redoing closets and renovating the bathroom. He even put a "to-do" list on the refrigerator to make sure everything was perfect so she would feel at home. They aren't just playing house; they are building a life.
Are Mitchell and Sydney Still Together in 2026?
Yes. They are very much still a couple.
While the internet is always thirsty for an engagement announcement, the pair has been vocal about moving at their own pace. They celebrated their two-year anniversary in late 2025, and as of early 2026, they are focused on the farm and their animals.
They’ve both mentioned that the pressure from fans to get married and have kids immediately can be a lot. Mitchell often says they are on "God’s timeline," not a TV producer's timeline. Sydney has also been clear that she wants to travel and experience more of life as a couple before they officially tie the knot.
What life looks like for them now:
- The Farm: They are living together on Mitchell's property near Nashville.
- The Animals: They’re expanding their "animal family," which includes Sydney's sheep, chickens, and their dogs.
- The Careers: Mitchell continues his first-generation farming while Sydney has fully integrated into the Southern lifestyle, often sharing updates of their "normal" life on social media.
Why They Worked When Others Failed
If you look at the track record of Farmer Wants a Wife (and let's be real, most dating shows), the failure rate is high. Brandon and Grace from their own season didn't even make it past the reunion. So why did Mitchell and Sydney stick?
It comes down to shared values. They didn't have to "learn" how to like the outdoors; it was already their lifestyle. Sydney didn't move to the farm for the "aesthetic" of a TikTok post; she moved because she actually enjoys the work.
They also handled the post-show transition with a lot of maturity. Instead of chasing influencer fame in LA or New York, they went back to Mount Juliet and kept things low-key. They focused on their families, integrating their lives, and figuring out the boring stuff—like who does the dishes and how to fix a fence—before jumping into a marriage.
What's Next for the Couple?
While there isn't a ring on that finger just yet, Mitchell has dropped plenty of hints. He’s been seen "liking" fan comments asking about an engagement, and it’s clear they see a long-term future together. For now, they seem perfectly happy being one of the few genuine success stories of the franchise.
If you’re looking to follow their journey, they are both fairly active on Instagram, sharing the less-glamorous (but more authentic) side of farm life. Their story is a reminder that sometimes the "reality" in reality TV actually exists, provided you’re willing to put in the work once the cameras stop rolling.
Actionable Takeaways from Their Journey:
- Prioritize Compatibility over Chemistry: Mitchell and Sydney's shared love for the outdoors was the foundation that survived the "spark" of the initial meeting.
- Take Your Time: Despite public pressure, they refused to rush into an engagement just for the sake of a finale episode.
- The "Big Move" Requires Preparation: Their success with moving in together came from Mitchell literally preparing the space for her and her animals months in advance.